"So I’m walking on my path heading to my destination
and I come upon my haters and I say to my haters I want to thank you they look
at my puzzled and ask why because you helped me build my character so thank you
for that. So I continued on my journey then I came upon my doubters I said I
want to tell you I love you they say why I said because of your doubt I
prevailed now watch me shine" KILLER MIKE
A lot of us are socializing with haters and not even knowing
it. We have people in our circle that don’t want us to come up in this world or
either they have some haterism they will say slick comments act like they
playing or they will down talk your dreams or goals. A lot of people we think
are close to us envy or have some since of jealousy because you are striving to
do bigger and better things with yourself. You have to watch those people some
people just expect they bad out of life or either they don’t want to work for
what they want they rather sit back wait for a hand out for you to come up so
they can leach off your success. Instead of them trying to be on your team and
help you build they rather sabotage your dream or just wait to get in your
pockets.
I heard some where I can’t remember who said it and my dad
said something similar to this as well
"hustlers hang with hustlers, pimps hang with pimps,
bosses hang with bosses, hoes hang with hoes, broke niggas hang with broke
niggas" you are the company you keep. So you have to learn to distance
yourself from people that are not beneficial to your success you don’t have to
cut them off just love and be there from a certain distance. Like where I stay
now I’m not going to lie I said in a bad area I really can’t call it the
projects but it’s close to it I’m cool with a lot of people that live there
they have poverty mind frame and a lot of negativity going on in their life’s
basically they let their circumstances control them. I female associate of mine
told me one day that she heard some cats talking greasy about me which I
already figured because I just don’t fuck with a lot of niggas I like doing my
own thing if a nigga not giving me no game no knowledge no info on how to make
paper why do I want to fuck with him if all I see them doing every day is chase
pussy, be dusty, begging, and smoke weed all day (I blow as well but shit when
you broke smoking & fucking is the last thing from your mind you want to
get paid) so anyway I brushed it off I guess she expected me to get mad or say
some slick she and she a ratchet bitch herself all she was going to do is run
back and tell them niggas you know them females who like drama or always in someone’s
business they don’t give a fuck about you at all just want to start some shit.
So basically I was just like hey I must be doing something right because they
promoting me. When you on your way up is lonely climbing that mountain people
have that crab in the barrel mentality instead of pushing you up then want to
pull that down. I have experienced this with family members down here in Little
Rock, AR so I had to distance myself from them as well.
So if you are focused on reaching success and accomplish your
goals associate yourself with likeminded individuals, people who want to be
success, people who have some paper in their pocket because you know what’s
going to happen it’s going to motivate you and that success will start rubbing
off on you as well. The best way to deal with haters & naysayers is to smile
and keep it pushing. Always do you stay focused till you shine.This post just was off the top of the head today I just saw
some things today that made me want to write this. Thanks for taking the time
to read. Leave a comment
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