CULTIVATING WOMEN

Just got a phone call this morning from a female i was dealing with two years a good very fly & young lady. At the time we were together she was 20 we where together about a year before i left DIEGO to move to LITTLE ROCK it wasnt a bad break she just didnt understand that i was making moves and had to make some changes. I have to admit i did leave a stain on shorties heart at the time she didnt understand where i was coming from and now she does. The reason i say that is that you cant lock a young female down no matter how loyal she is to you because she hasnt had the time to mature to experience life she cant go out to the club really unless its 18 and up, you cant take her to a nice lil lounge or bar because she in not 21 so you get what im saying she is still in that see me faze attention. I took full responsibility for the situation because i shouldnt have gotten into a relationship knowing eventually i was going to make moves she wanted to stay in cali and i didnt. So one i got to Little Rock we stayed in contact knowing that long distance shit dont work my dick going to get to itching and her pussy going to get to itching its human nature to want to have your needs filled eventually.
I explained to her that i wanted her to live her life handle her business if it is meant for us to be together then we will but if she meets her a good man give him a chance move forward with her life because i cant give her what she wanted.  Let me stop for a minute and ask my ladies why is it when a man seems to push you away you want him more? I mean this is one of the most loyal females i have ever dealt with and it doesnt have anything to do with the age becuase i have dealt with older women as well I give a lot of credit to her moms and pops which makes a huge difference with how women carry themselves and what they look for in a man. What kept her loyal was i always let my actions speak followed through on my words.  So basically when i touched back down in Cali which was about a year ago we saw it other she was mad angry cried but she had her a rebound man until she meet someone else until she ready for something serious nothing wrong with doing the rebound thing for my fellas you have to know when you the rebound. So we parted ways didnt talk so i get the call this morning didnt answer the phone because i didnt knwo the number so i called it back it was her we talk laugh she tells me she engaged and she had another son i was like congrats thats a beautiful thing. She told me thanks for letting her go and givng her the knowledge i gave her when i was around (wasnt in those exact words just to much to list). The convo was about 5 minutes short in that short period of time tells you a lot if you know how to pay attention.

The title of the blog is Cultivating Females. What i mean by cultivating females is like you are preparing some land for gardening. When i reflected back on my past i see a lot of the women i have dealt with after we parted ways either got married or ended up in a good long term relationship. Then sometimes they would hit me up on FB, email, or call me to give me some appreciation saying that at that time they didnt understand what i was telling them at the time because i dont tell females what they want to hear instead what they need to hear. See every females has had at least one authentic man in her life that gave her some game some knowledge he let his actions speak to a certain degree for my fellas who do this she might not tell you or show appreciation for it but she will allways have love for you know matter what becuase you upgraded her with your knowledge so she can weed out the lames.  For my single fellas out there no matter how many women you deal with she should always leave you with some for of knowledge and a better woman. That shit goes a logn way with females if you know how to handle situations correctly even if she leave take responsibility and leave the door half cracked.
"ALWAYS KEEP IT 100"