Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Approaching Women

As a man you cant be scared to interact and approach women. You cant sit behind the computer on social websites trying to meet women as I explained earlier about internet hoes it kind of like hitting the lottery meeting a decent woman off line.  Just like personal,  and physical development how to interact with women can be developed as well you just have to have patience. You will make some mistakes along the way like I did but practice makes perfect right.  Here are some steps when it comes to interacting with women.

1.) Approach her with confidence: Being confident when interacting with women is a must women love a confident man. Focus on the things that make you unique and great. Introduce yourself, ask her what her name is and go from there. Don’t make things complicated.
2.) Don’t be afraid of getting rejected: You are not going to be compatible with every woman. Getting rejected is just a part of the process when meeting new women. So know that you won’t be successful with every woman that you encounter. There are some women who are just fucked up in the head you don’t want those women in your life. So once you develop you social skills and keep building your confidence rejection will never bother you. When it comes to the opposite sex it is all based on compatibility.
3.) Get her talking: Women love to talk you just have to ask the right questions. Ask open ended questions to learn more about her. Then you will be able to allow the conversation to flow. If the conversation is not flowing and there is really nothing to talk about then she is not a good fit. Never take it personal you guys just weren’t compatible.
4.) Don’t expect too much from a woman you don’t know: When first meeting a woman we tend to over think over analyze. Don’t put pressure on you self just be natural let the conversation flow. Either she is going to feel what you are talking about or not.
Interacting with women are not complicated all you have to do is step to them in a confident manner spark her interest with your conversation and see where it goes. Fellas women know if they want to fuck with you or not when they see you and when you approach them. They just waiting to see what kind of conversation you have on you and waiting for you to say something to fuck it up. That’s why you have to have your mouth piece on point so you can keep the conversation flowing. 

Monday, March 12, 2012

Ways To Make Money With Facebook


Majority of us are on facebook everyday so why not make money from it. I mean think about you you have like a million friends some people you might not even know so why not make a profit it. A lot of are sitting in front of a money making machine and dont even know it your laptop or desktop. So benefit from it. I know you probably asking how can i make money using Facebook. There are to many ways im just going to share some of the one I have come across and implementing as we speak. It is a beautiful thing when you can have money coming from different areas even if it is a small amount. Thanks to apps that have been created you can make money in numerous ways.

  1. Zazzle.com  it allows you to create and design a product on their site it is free and then sell them on your Facebook page. You can also sell products created by other artist and earn commissions.
  2. Cafepress.compress It’s the same idea as Zazzle, but with a much bigger and well-known online store. Cafepress lets you easily sell any product from anti Obama Shirts to pro Obama Shirts, on your Facebook and make money, whether it was created by you or someone else. 
  3. Ether.com is a site where you can give advice to people on a range of topics either over the phone or by using chat. You can also use their application of Facebook to make money while giving advice over the phone. So if you give excellent advice and people or always looking for your input on this will be excellent for you. You set the rates and they provide a number for you so people can call you and they call will be forwarded to your personal phone. 
  4.  Music Blaster you can put a simple little music store on your Facebook, and sell music from BlastMyMusic.com. You earn 5% for each song sold. It allows you to help and promote your favorite artist while making money as well. 
  5. Garage Sale. Simply add Garage Sale to your profile page and list every thing you want to sell. When someone buys something, Garage Sale automatically bills the buyer’s credit card and lets you when to ship the item. Your money is deposited directly into your PayPal account so no worries. 
  6. Shopit is a free Social Commerce Network that gives users the ability to buy, sell or trade any product or service. Simply add a free store to your Facebook and sell anything you like. Another easy way to make money on Facebook. 
  7. Flame Tunes   is app created for artists to sell their music. So, if you are an artist, FlameTunes enables you to sell your music on your Facebook. You can also use it to sell music on MySpa
  8. Shopping Mall Payvment Facebook App  allows you to put a virtual store on you face book page allows you to select products from different brands and sell them. 
  9.  Ebay You can have your eBay on Facebook. This application allows you to add eBay auction listings to your Profile. Now you can sell things to your Facebook friends.
  10. Lendingclub.com  It’s almost like prosper, where you land money to others and make money with the interest you make from the loan. Not to worry though, lending club has all the detail covered. So, it’s completely safe, and the whole legal and trust issues are taking cared by lending club. If you can use it safely, it can be a good way to make money with your Facebook.

Being Thorough When Handling Business


   "People who make no mistakes lack boldness and the spirit of adventure. They are the brakes on the wheels of progress."-Dale Turner


“Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.”-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Boldness: the trait to be willing to undertake things that involve risk or danger
As man you have to make bold moves in order to make progressive change in life to many of us go through life hesitating questioning second guessing everything we decide to do it causes mediocrity and indecisive. Sometimes you have to make your move before you are ready in order to achieve success to reach the told you have to be bold.
Look around you from business to everyday life those who are where they want to be in life who get that respect made a strategic bold move in their life. Those individuals didn’t sit back waiting for a hand out or wait for the right opportunity the right time to get what they wanted they went out and took it. When you put pressure on yourself to make a bold move it brings out the best in you, it brings clarity; it brings focus just like a diamond pressure bust pipes it also makes diamonds.
Look throughout history you have great individuals like Muhammad Ali, Steve Jobs, Donald Trump, Daymond John, 50 Cent all these men made bold moves to reach their peak potential. You have to make a habit of making bold moves get out of you comfort zones put that pressure on yourself.
Being bold is scary and a hard thing to do. So be bold in life once you make up your mind to do something do it even if you don’t know how you are going to accomplish what you set out to do. Once you make that move what you need to know will come along the way and you can plan accordingly. If success was easy everyone would be successful be bold. People who love a vibrat rewarding life demostrate that trait of being bold. They dont wait for life to happen to them, they go out and create that life. They dont step with they meet challenges they keeping going. They are living the life they want because they are bold enout to get out and get what they want.
Ways To be bold:
1.Make A Action List
Write out some things that you always wanted to but have never done. Suppose you wanted to move to another state. Set a goal to make that move within 6 months to a year. Write down all the reasons why you should do it and map out a plan to make that move.
2.Fake it until you make it
Decide one new character trait you'd like to take on; like being more outgoing. Model people who have this trait.
3.Switch Up Your Style
Adopt a new look with clothing or new hair cut or you change the way you talk, walk, act, or interact with people, switch up your style in order to be bold. Changing your outer appearance will help you adopt a new personality style as well. Your inner confidence will go up as well
4.Take calculated risk
Get outside your comfort zone and do something out of character for you. Bold people are courageous, so whether you decide to bungy jump or swim with sharks, see how it feels to be unpredictable. You can always go back to the way you were, but becoming bolder usually means stretching yourself beyond where you were and never going back. Being bold means experimenting. It could be new places to eat or vacation, or making new friends who are distinct from your current group. Surprise not only your friends and family, but yourself!
5.Act "as if." are already bold
Pretend for a day that you are bold. How would you feel? What would you do differently? Find some bold people and see what they do and how they do things. Then model them and act as if you, too, are bold. When situations come up, don't act as you do normally; step into your bold character and behave differently. Put yourself in places where no one knows you -- so you can practice bold actions without feeling self-conscious. Over time, you, too, will be bold as it becomes natural to you.


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Make Money By Clicking Advertisements

came across two sites that you can make money from it will take a while really make some money but by sitting down and taking the time to click the advertisements. Ive came across two others that im testing now the ones i showing below are doing real good ive made about $10 and $15 from both sites in a couple hours today while I was watching the basketball games.


33bux.com

Clixsense.com

I will add to this once i get some more right now these two have been working for me.


Ways To Building Confidence


On of my favorite songs by Killer Mike “I’m The Shit” that how you got to feel all day everyday. There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance. As a man you have to have that confidence that swag people can see when a man is confident he doesn’t have to brag or boast he gives off that vibe. If you are lacking in confidence it can be developed. Here are some ways to build confidence:
1) Dress Fly: The clothes don’t make the man the man makes the clothes. Your clothing reflects the way you carry yourself when you look good you feel good. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance then you are. So take care of your personal appearance. You don’t have to have expensive clothing just be clean and crisp at all times
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2)  Put Some Pep In Your Step: A good way to see how people feel about themselves is to examine their walk. Is it slow? Is it painful? Or is it energetic and purposeful? People with confidence walk quickly? They have places to be, people to see, and business to handle. Even if you are not in a hurry put some pep in your step. Walking a little faster will make you look and feel more important.

3)  Have Good Posture: They way a person carries them selves says a lot about them . People who slouch and have that lethargic look show a lack of self confidence. They don’t have that enthusiasm about what they are doing. By having good posture you will feel more confident. Stand up straight, keep your head up , and make eye contact when talking to people. You will make a positive impression on people as well as gain more confidence.

4) Write a Personal Confidence Statement: Listening to motivational speakers and watching videos are great don’t rely on those alone. Create your own motivational speech with enthusiasm 30-60 seconds long that highlights your strengths and goals. You also can write it our read it each day, and recite it in front of a mirror.

5) Show Appreciation & Gratitude For What You Have: Focus on what you want but also show appreciation for what you have currently. Each day give thanks for past success and current success. Focusing on what you don’t have or lacking decreases your confidence.

6) Compliment Other People: When you don’t think highly of yourself you tend to push that off on other people indirectly. To break that habit show praise to other people. Compliment those in your circle or random people. Doing this you become even more liked it builds character and confidence. Look for the best in people first and it will bring out the best in you.

7)  Speak Up: Speak your mind in respectful way don’t worry about if people judge your opinion or being wrong. Most people might feel the same or their scared to speak up. By speaking up in discussions you will be a better speaker more confident in your own thoughts and recognized as a leader by your peers
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8)  Sit In The Front Row: In school, work, and assemblies a lot of us tend to sit in the back because we don’t want to be noticed are fear being asked a question. It shows a lack of confidence. By sitting in the front it shows confidence you wont miss important information and you are also visible to influential people.

9) Get In Shape/Workout: Besides your personal appearance our physical appearance has a effect on your self confidence. If you are out of shape you’ll feel insecure, unattractive, and have no energy. By getting yourself in shape you will have a better physical appearance, have more energy and higher confidence.

10) Travel/Get Out Your Comfort Zone:  Go alone go hit up a new city, country when you place your self in a environment it makes you act you have to talk to people you. It forces you to be social being social builds confidence.

11)  Never Quit:  Confident people never quit.  How can you be a confident person if you are a constant quitter? The day you quit is the day you start living a life of regret. And that kills self-confidence. You can accomplish what ever you want as long as you stick with it.

You can accomplish almost anything if you just stick to it long enough. Promise your self you will never quit until you accomplish your goals. Have and develop that never give up mentality. This is a major trait among confident people.

 “Our greatest glory is not in ever failing, but in rising up every time we fail.”-Ralph Waldo Emerson


KEYS TO "THINKING AND GROWING RICH"



One of my favorite books of all time Napoleon Hills "Think And Grow Rich" i read this book at least 3 times a month im going to share with you some of the basic of what you need to start on your journey to financial freedom. Im a still on my journey i know my destination. What ever you put your mind to you can do it. You can have what ever you want out of life. You just got to have faith. This is what im using to help me along my path and would like to share it with you
D E S I R E
Desire means, simply, knowing what you want. It is the first principle of success. Your brain becomes magnetized with the dominating thoughts you hold in your mind. These magnets attract forces, people, and circumstances in harmony with the nature of those dominating thoughts. Before you can accumulate riches in great abundance, you must magnetize your mind with an intense desire for those riches. Wishing will not bring riches. But desiring riches with a state of mind that becomes an obsession, then planning definite ways to acquire those riches through goal setting and backing those plans with a persistence that does not recognize failure, will bring you what you desire.
There are six definite, practical steps to follow in order to transform a desire for riches into the
riches themselves.
1) Fix in your mind the exact amount of money you desire.
2) Determine exactly what you intend to give in return for the money you desire.
3) Establish a definite date by which you intend to possess the money you desire.
4) Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire, and begin at once — whether you are
 ready or not — to put this plan into action.
5) Write out clearly and concisely all of the information in Steps 1 to 4 above.
6) Read your statement aloud twice daily and, as you read, see and feel and believe yourself already in possession of the money.
Answer the following questions, based on the six steps detailed above. When you have completed
answering the questions, you will have the basis for your plan to accumulate the wealth you desire.
1) What is the exact amount of money you desire?
2) What exactly will you give in return for this money? Remember, something never comes for
nothing.
3) By what date do you intend to have the money you desire? Be specific.
4) In the following space, create a definite plan for carrying out your desire. Make this plan
something you can put into action immediately. Make the steps specific and achievable in the
time frame you’ve given yourself in Step 3.
5) Combine all of the answers from Steps 1 to 4 and write them in the space below. Although this may seem repetitious, remember that repeating your desires until they become burning
obsessions makes those desires become reality.
6) Read the statement in Step 5 aloud. Do it again. In the space below, write down at what two
times during the course of each day you will repeat this statement aloud to yourself.
FA I T H
A mind dominated by positive emotions becomes a favorable site for the state of mind known as faith. When faith is blended with thought, the subconscious mind instantly picks up the vibration, translates it into its spiritual equivalent, and transmits it to Infinite Intelligence, as in the case of prayer.
Faith is a state of mind that may be induced or created by affirmations or repeated instructions to the subconscious mind through the principle of autosuggestion (see Page 12). It is a state of mind that you may develop voluntarily through application and use of the principles found in this
program.
It is important to remember:
• Faith is the starting point of all accumulation of riches.
• Faith is the basis of all miracles and mysteries that science cannot explain.
• Faith is the only known antidote for failure.
A lack of self-confidence may be the biggest obstacle to maintaining faith in yourself. This handicap can be overcome and timidity translated into courage through the use of positive thoughts stated in writing, memorized, and repeated until they become part of your subconscious mind.
The following is a formula for attaining and strengthening your self-confidence. Commit yourself to genuinly believing of each element of the formula and acting upon each belief.

a) Know you have the ability to achieve the objects of your definite purpose in life; demand
 of yourself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment, and promise to render such action.
b) Realize that the dominating thoughts of your mind will eventually reproduce themselves
 in outward, physical action, and will gradually transform themselves into physical reality; concentrate your thoughts for 30 minutes daily upon the task of thinking of the person you intend to become, thereby creating in your mind a clear mental picture.
c) Know that through the principle of autosuggestion any desire that you persistently hold
 in your mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the object you desire. Devote 10 minutes daily to demanding of yourself the development of self-confidence.
d) Write down a clear description of your definite chief aim in life, and never stop trying
 until you have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.
e) Realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice;engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. Succeed by
 attracting to yourself the forces you wish to use and the cooperation of other people. Induce others to serve you because of your willingness to serve others. Eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism by developing love for all humanity; know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring success. Cause others to believe in you, because you will believe in them and in yourself.
Sign your name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day with full faith
that it will gradually influence your thoughts and actions so that you will become a self-reliant,
successful person.
Answer the following questions:
1) Write down five beliefs in which you feel you must have faith before you can reach your goals. These beliefs can be about yourself, your family, friends, or colleagues, or about the universe as a whole.
a)
b)
c)
d)
e)
While working to believe the things you listed in the previous question — by repeating them to
yourself often and using the formula given previously — it’s important to also remember those
things in which you already have deep faith. Below, list five beliefs you currently hold, about
which you have no doubts whatever, preferably beliefs that will help you achieve your goals.
a)
b)
c)
d)
e)
AUTOSUGGESTION
Autosuggestion is self-suggestion. It is the agency of communication between that part of the mind where conscious thought takes place and the subconscious mind. With it, an individual may voluntarily feed his or her subconscious mind thoughts of a creative nature or, by neglect, permit destructive thoughts to find their way in.
Through the dominating thoughts one permits to remain in the conscious mind (whether these
thoughts are positive or negative, true or false is immaterial), the principle of autosuggestion
voluntarily reaches the subconscious mind and influences it with these thoughts.
Your ability to use the principle of autosuggestion will depend upon your capacity to concentrate upon a given desire until that desire becomes a burning obsession.
1) You have been repeating your course of action aloud two times daily. It is time to add more
autosuggestions to your daily routing.
a)
b)
c)
d)
e)
SPECIALIZED KNOW L E D G E
There are two kinds of knowledge. One is general; the other, specialized.
General knowledge, no matter how great in quantity or variety it may be, is of but little use in the
accumulation of money.
Specialized knowledge is organized and intelligently directed through practical plans of action; its definite end is the accumulation of money.
Lack of understanding of this fact has been the source of confusion to millions of people who
falsely believe that knowledge is power. Knowledge is only potential power. It becomes power only when and if it is organized into definite plans of action and directed to a definite end — through the use of specialized knowledge.
Before you can be sure of your ability to transform desire into its monetary equivalent, you will
require specialized knowledge of the service, merchandise, or profession you intend to offer in
return for fortune.
1) Below, list three areas in which you possess specialized knowledge.
a)
b)
c)
Are there any other areas in which, with a little effort, your areas of general knowledge might be
moved toward becoming more specialized knowledge? What are they and how might you help
transform them into specialized knowledge areas?
I M AG I N AT I O N
Ideas, the product of the imagination, are the starting point of all fortunes.
The imagination is literally the workshop in which all man’s plans are created. Desire is given
shape, form, and action with its aid.
The imagination functions in two forms:
1) Synthetic imagination creates nothing; it works with the material of experience — old concepts, ideas, or plans — and recombines them into new shapes.
2) Creative imagination allows the finite mind to have direct communication with Infinite
Intelligence; through hunches, intuition, and inspiration, new ideas are passed on to mankind.
The great leaders of business, industry, finance, and the arts became great because they developed the faculty of creative imagination. Your own imaginative faculty may have become weak through inaction. It can be revived and made alert through use. Think, visualize, fantasize, dream! Get your imagination back into shape.
1) In the space below, imagine what your life would be like if you won a lottery prize of $10 million. Be as specific as possible about what you would do with the money — use a separate sheet of paper if necessary. Don’t be shy about dreaming big!
2) Now imagine your life if all your goals were met. What would your ideal existence be? Don’t limit
 yourself to only financial aspirations this time. What would your career be like? Your relationships? Your leisure time? Be as detailed as possible and, again, use a separate sheet of paper if necessary.
3) Referring back to question 2, imagine various strategies for making this ideal life become a
reality.
ORGANIZED PLANNING
Your achievement can be no greater than your plans are sound.
When creating and adopting a plan for success, it may be necessary to have several alternatives in reserve. If the first plan you adopt does not work successfully, replace it with a new plan; if this new plan fails to work, replace it in turn with still another, and so on, until you find a plan that does work.
When making plans, keep these facts in mind:
• You are engaged in an undertaking of major importance; to be sure of success, you must
have plans that are faultless.
• You must have the advantage of the experience, education, native ability, and imagination
of other minds; this is in harmony with the methods followed by every person who has
accumulated a great fortune.
Although the Master Mind principle is discussed at greater length in the book it is advantageous to become familiar with the concept in regard to organized planning. The following are steps to take to build practical plans, and they include several tips on using the Master Mind principle.

a)Ally yourself with a group of as many people as you may need for the creation and
carrying out of your plan or plans for the accumulation of money.
b) Before forming your Master Mind alliance, decide what advantages and benefits you may
 offer the individual members of your group, in return for their cooperation.
c) Arrange to meet with the members of your Master Mind group at least twice a week, and
 more often if possible, until you have jointly perfected the necessary plan or plans for the accumulation of money.
d) Maintain perfect harmony between yourself and every member of your Master Mind
group. If you fail to carry out this instruction to the letter, you may expect to meet with
failure
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For each of the following important factors of leadership, rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 5, 1
indicating the greatest need for improvement.
1) Unwavering courage
1 2 3 4 5
2) Self-Control
1 2 3 4 5
3) Keen sense of justice
1 2 3 4 5
4) Definiteness of decision
1 2 3 4 5
5) Definiteness of plans
1 2 3 4 5
6) Habit of doing more than paid for
1 2 3 4 5
7) Pleasing personality
1 2 3 4 5
8) Sympathy and understanding
1 2 3 4 5
9) Mastery of detail
1 2 3 4 5
10) Willingness to assume full responsibility
1 2 3 4 5
11) Cooperation
1 2 3 4 5
PLANNING TO SUCCEED
Everyone enjoys doing the kind of work for which he or she is best suited. An artist loves to work with paints, a craftsman with his hands. A writer loves to write. Those with less definite talents have preferences for certain fields of business and industry.
The following are steps that will help lead you to exactly the job that will guarantee your success.
a) Decide exactly what kind of a job you want. If the job doesn’t already exist, perhaps you can create it.
b) Choose the company or individual for whom you wish to work.
c) Study y our prospective employer, e.g., policies, personnel, and chances of advancement.
d) By analyzing yourself, your talents and capabilities, figure out what you can offer this
 prospective employer. Plan ways of giving advantages, services, developments, ideas that you believe you can deliver successfully.
e) Forget about “a job,” and forget whether or not there is an opening. Concentrate on what
 you can give.
f) Once you have your plan in mind, arrange with an experienced writer to put it on paper
 neatly and in detail.
g) Present it to the proper person with authority, and he or she will do the rest. Every
company is looking for men and women who can give something of value — ideas,
services, or connections. Every company has room for the man or woman who has a
definite plan of action advantageous to that company.
The following are 30 major causes of failure. After reading each one and evaluating it in relation to yourself and your own experiences with success or failure, mark either Yes or No for each. Yes means it is something that has occurred in your life, perhaps causing failure. No means it is something that has not been a part of your life, has rarely if ever impeded your path to success.

1) Unfavorable hereditary background
2) Lack of a well-defined purpose in life
3) Lack of ambition to aim above mediocrity
4) Insufficient education
5) Lack of self-discipline
6) Ill health
7) Unfavorable environmental influences during childhood
8) Procrastination
9) Lack of persistence
10) Negative personality
11) Lack of controlled sexual urge
12) Uncontrolled desire for “something for nothing”
13) Lack of a well-defined power of decision
14) One or more of the six basic fears — poverty, criticism, ill health, loss of love, old age, and death
15) Wrong selection of a mate in marriage
16) Over-caution
17) Wrong selection of associates in business
18) Superstition and prejudice
19) Wrong selection of a vocation
20) Lack of concentration of effort
21) The habit of indiscriminate spending
22) Lack of enthusiasm
23) Intolerance
24) Intemperance
25) Inability to cooperate with others
26) Possession of power that wasn’t acquired through your efforts
27) Intentional dishonesty
28) Egotism and vanity
29) Guessing instead of thinking
30) Lack of capital
DECISION MAKING
Studies of people who accumulated large fortunes disclosed that every one of them had the habit of reaching decisions promptly and of changing these decisions slowly, if and when they changed them at all.
People who have failed to accumulate money, without exception, have the habit of reaching
decisions, if at all, very slowly, and of changing these decisions quickly and often.
The majority of people who fail to accumulate money sufficient for their needs are, generally, easily influenced by the opinions of others. Everyone has a flock of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who will accept them. If you are influenced by opinions when you reach decisions, you will not succeed in any undertaking, much less in that of transforming your own desire into money.
Keep your own counsel. Reach your own decisions and follow them. Take no one into your
confidence except members of your Master Mind group, and be very sure in your
selection of this group that you choose only those who will be in complete sympathy and harmony with your purpose. Even then, don’t make their opinions your own as a matter of course.
Answer the following questions True or False.
1) I make decisions quickly.
True False
2) I am rarely influenced by the opinions of others.
True False
3) I am slow to reverse any decision that I make.
True False
4) I have never lost out on an opportunity because I failed to make a decision.
True False
5) I would rather make my own decisions than rely on the opinions and advice of others.
True False
The more True answers you have, the closer you are to possessing the decision-making skills needed to move you toward attaining the riches you desire and deserve.
P E R S I S T E N C E
Persistence is an essential factor in the process of transforming desire into its monetary equivalent.
Without persistence, you will be defeated even before you start. With persistence you will win.
Persistence is based upon definite causes, among them:
• Definiteness of purpose
• Desire
• Self-reliance
• Definiteness of plans
• Accurate knowledge
• Cooperation
• Will power
• Habit
Lack of persistence is a weakness and one of the major causes of failure. However, it is a weakness that can be overcome by effort.
Constantly keep in mind that the starting point of all achievement is desire. Weak desires bring
weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat. If you find yourself
lacking in persistence, it can be remedied by building a stronger fire under your desires.
There are four simple steps leading to the habit of persistence:
• A definite purpose backed by burning desire for its fulfillment.
• A definite plan, expressed in continuous action.
• A mind closed tightly against all negative and discouraging influences, including negative
suggestions of relatives, friends, and acquaintances.
• A friendly alliance with one or more people who will encourage you to follow through
with both plan and purpose.
Think about the habit of persistence as it applies to your own life, and answer the following
questions.
1) Below, detail an example for your recent experience in which persistence has paid off for you.
2) Now, recall an experience in which you feel that, had you been more persistent, you would have met with more success.
3) In relation to the above experience, what were the obstacles you faced that caused your
persistence to wane or disappear?
4) In retrospect, what might you have done to overcome those obstacles?
As a parting bit of advice, remember: Life is a game, like checkers or chess, and the player opposite you is time. If you hesitate before moving or neglect to move promptly, your pieces will be wiped off the board. Time is a partner who will not tolerate indecision.
Your struggles with indecision are over. You now hold the master key that unlocks the door to life’s bountiful riches — the privilege of creating in your own mind a burning desire for a definite form of riches.
There is no penalty for the use of this key, but there is a price to be paid if you do not use it. That price is failure. The reward is worthy of your effort. Will you begin to seek that reward today?

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Gentleman Savant: What All Men Should Strive To Be






Definitions
Gentleman gent•le•man/ˈjentlmÉ™n/
Noun:
1) A chivalrous, courteous, or honorable man.
2) A man of good social position, esp. one of wealth and leisure.
Savant sa•vant/saˈvänt/
Noun: A learned person, esp. a scholar
Gentleman Savant
A “Gentleman Savant” is something I came up with on accident one day while reading. A read a book about a pimp named Silky it was called “Gentleman Of Leisure: A Year In The Life Of A Pimp”. In the book Silky says “The term is pimp but I don’t use it. I’m a professional gentleman of leisure…it’s a graduated version. I have a Ph.D.” Basically he has mastered the pimping game he has his PH.D (Pimp Hoes Daily). He has all the characteristics of a gentleman and enjoys the finer things in life. I know a lot of us men admire pimps I grew up around pimps learned a lot from pimps but I have never been a pimp in my life. I admire their profession and what they do but when you observe what they do and their mind frame it might be a little extreme but they have dealing with women down to a science plus they have the fly shit to show for doing it. It’s a beautiful thing.
So I was thinking hmmmm what about the everyday man how can he model some form of the pimps mentality into his life. Thats how I came up with the term “Gentleman Servant”. A “Gentleman Savant” is a man who has character/personality. Who has a balance with dealing with a woman he knows how to be firm but he knows how to show appreciation when she has earned it. He knows how to take care of a woman mentally, physically, and emotionally. He is well respect by other men. He has his finances in order. He does not violate his “boss code” for anyone at all he lives by his principles at all times. He loves the finer things in life and will never settle for less. He is a very knowledgeable person he has street smarts as well as book smarts. He knows how to conduct himself in the boardroom and in the streets. He knows that he never stops learning so he always keeps him mind open to new things because he might miss out on a golden opportunity. He never becomes stagnant he is always progressing in life and always seeking knowledge. He is a leader.
This is what I want all men to become a “Gentleman Savant” we all have the potential to be great in all areas of our life to be well-rounded individuals. We just have to put forward the effort to never stop growing and developing. Always strive to become a better man on a daily basis. The only person that can save you is you no one else. You have to put forward the effort to live the life you want to live. You can have and be anything you want you just have to set your mind to obtain that goal, have a plan, and put it into action. So are you just living are you living. Don’t leave this earth with any regrets reach your potential. Live your life to the fullest.



Diamond In The Rough: She A Quality Female And Dont Know It









I had an incident today i was on my way home from work i see this female all the time gorgeous female. She stands about 5'9 multiracial real petite with a hour class shape. I would say she is about 21-22.I have the habit of people watching because you can tell a lot about a person body language how they feel about themselves. Every time i see her she doesn't make eye contact with anyone she might look up then put her head back down. She is not dusty meaning you can tell she has good hygiene but her fashion sense is real low-key you can tell she doesnt dress up to much she is just real basic jeans, t-shirt, and converse maybe a sundress everyone once in a while if she goes somewhere. You can tell she doesn't go out much at all every time i see her she has a book with here thats a plus (because im an avid reader myself). So anyway im just observing her for about the past week now (not in a stalkerish manner) just trying to see if what im assuming is correct. On a scale of 1-10 i would give her a 8.
So anyway i speak to her today introduced myself let her know i had been checking her out for like the past week told her she is too cute to be always having her head down keep it up and smile (man i got the biggest smile out I have ever seen out of this women) find out her name is Tatiana (not her real name) and she works at a group home and she is going to college to be a pre-school teacher this is her last year. So basically we talked casual conversation had her smiling and laughing. She is a real down to earth and respectful female. I also asked her is she was single she was like yeah I asked her why. She didnt give the typical response most women do like "i cant find a good man" or "my last boyfriend cheated on me". Her response was she is basically focused on school but she would give a guy a chance if the feeling was mutual. Wow that's all i can say to myself she didn't play the blame game. I didnt ask her directly even though she is a gorgeous young woman i can tell she has some insecurities about herself and she knows those insecurities so it keeps her humble which is a plus. The reason i say that is because a lot of people dont know their flaws at one point i didnt know my flaws or vices now i do so it humbled me. I see a lot of women who think they are dimes, divas, or a quality female which is due to a lot of men pumping these women heads up when on a scale of 1-10 they are 4,5, or maybe a 6. Like you have men calling women thick when they are actually overweight so you got women thinking that shit cool. My question is have you ever seen a fat skeleton? Hell nah. Then you have the women who are 7s or 8s in they physical they could be quality women which would make them a 10 but they either dont have they mind right, ratchet ass hell, got fucked up attitudes, and dont have anything to bring to the table but whats between their legs so that drops their stock down to a 3.
Didnt mean to go on a rant back to the subject so after we parted ways i gave her my number told her to hit me up sometime so we can continue our convo she asked her if i wanted hers i replied "no because if you are interested you will contact me" another big smile.
The reason i shared this is that a lot of us men tend to pass over females like this on a daily i dont think it is intentional we are just not paying attention. Women like this are rare. The reason i say that is because a lot of times they are lacking in certain areas such as self-esteem, their fashion sense might be off but that is where you step in when you have your mind right. See with a woman like this you upgrade her in the area you are lacking if her self-esteem low and she is a humble female you pump her up. If her fashion game is off you fix her up. You turn a tramp into a champ. When you do she is a loyal ass female no matter if she end up getting married or have a boyfriend you always going to be that top man in her life. Because you upgraded and cultivated her. Like i said before any woman who comes in your circle she should be a better woman after dealing with you and she will always have love for you not matter what. You only do this with a woman has potential who is a quality woman and she doesn't know it. I will post a blog on how to recognize a quality women soon.

POWER OF THE DICK


I was watching a Kain Carter you tube video i love this dude. He says some real shit but in a funny way. He this video on "THE POWER OF THE DICK" he says that you dick has no power at all. I agree with him to many men think we are going to keep a woman just by beating the pussy up good. Fellas your dick does not have more power than pussy. Think about it cats pay for pussy all day everyday. A female can be ratchet as hell but you will still fuck her. You see cats who on top of their game that will fuck with a female who not on top of hers just because she cute and for that pussy.
As Kain Carter says "you must have good dick presentation. That means have your tools in order. Prime example Jay-z is not a very attractive man at all but he had excellent dick presentation to snatch up Beyonce. We all know Beyonce wouldn't have gave him a time of day if he wasnt on top of his game. You have a lot of women who do have boy toys cats they call when they want to fuck but that's nothing will grow from that. So she knows she can get some good dick at anytime until she finds her mr.right who has his tools in order. Im not saying in order to get women you must have money, a nice car, and home. No because you can have all of that but if you dont have any game or knowledge on you best believe you will get played for a lame possibly end up paying alimony, child-support we see it happen all the time with entertainers. Another example it happened about two weeks ago i went to a club stopped at Denny's that's where everyone goes pretty much after the club. So anyway we outside chilling kicking it this fly ass female was out there with her homegirl. I like people watching i see this cat pull up i think he was driving a Buick Regal he tried to holla at her she brushed him off. Then this cat pulls up in a BMW 750 hollas at her the same female guess what she ends up leaving with him we all know what went down. Now on the opposite end with us men we dont give a damn what a woman drives shit let alone where she lives if we not looking for a relationship we just trying to fuck majority of the time. We could be big CEOs of a corporation and she could be a waitress if we like something we going after it we dont pay attention to that other shit. When you are ready to settle down as a man you should look for certain characteristics in a woman i will post a blog on that later if she meets most of them then you can upgrade he in the areas she is lacking but you must have some game on you.
Now i know some of my fellas think well i have bitches blowing up my phone, stalking me, and fighting over me. Hears a wake up call you dealing with dumb bitches no woman of quality going to put her self out there like that because she values her self too much.
Here are the tools you need to have in order: 
1.Your own spot: You’ve got to have your own spot or being rooming with another male roommate you guys sharing an apt or house. Women like to be comfortable they like to be able to go to a mans house without having to worry about his momma, siblings, or some one busting in on them. Women love nice shit to im not saying you have to spend a lot of money on fixing your place up if you do cool. Just make sure you place is clean if your couches don’t match go to Wal-Mart and get some couch covers. Keep a nice bed room set with a matching sheet set and comfortable a quality female likes a man who likes nice shit. Best place to get shit at is IKEA that’s my spot. Also keep food in your fridge so she can cook for you makes good for conversation. Also if possible besides the PlayStation 3 or Xbox 360 get a Wii as well man you don’t know how much pussy I got from having one of those. I recommend have your own spot before you get a car unless you live somewhere that the public transportation is fucked up then a car is necessary.
2.Good health: A woman doesn’t want to be with a sickly man. You can’t do anything about your face but you can have a nice looking body get rid of that cut take your ass to the gym or get a home gym. Go to the dentist get that grill fixed. Get a manicure and pedicure (I shouldn’t have to say this without the gloss and polish). A woman likes a well-kept man.
3.Transportation: Get you a decent ride that runs good you don’t have to worry about breaking down. Ive went through so many cars its crazy. You need a car especially if you don’t have your own place you can go to hers pick her up go to a hotel whatever. Also if she has a car and has to pick you up all the time it gets old plus you want to be able to bounce when you want to bounce.
4) Wardrobe: You don’t have to have expensive clothing if you can afford it and fits in your budget cool. Stay fresh stay clean. Keep all your shoes clean women tend to look at that, your teeth, and keep a fresh-cut even if you have to cut your own hair. You don’t have to rock name brand clothing just make sure their ironed and crisp.
5. Jewelry: All of us know when love diamonds. Im not really into jewelry too much but I do own a nice diamond watch with a leather band and some diamond stud earrings. If you into jewelry cool if not cool just do what fits your styles. It does get you that extra attention
Having your shit in order basically puts you in a better position with women. But once you knock her can you keep her coming back is the challenge. That is all up to you after that. Like i said earlier a lot of cats have the tools but lake the intelligence, game, and common sense when it comes to dealing with women. I will post something on that later. Peace.

Friday, March 9, 2012

Computer Love: Internet Dating


This is a tough question to answer because ive had some good experiences and bad experiences as far as meeting women offline. I've met women who actually didn't look like their picture a lot of times it is an old ass high school picture when she was fly in her younger days I meet her in person she looks like Chewbacca from Stars Wars. I've talked to females who have had the same experience as well with men using old ass photos turn out to be crazy or they use someone else photo as well. I mean seriously you think people are not going to notice. I can honestly say ive had more good experiences than bad ones. The thing is with the internet people can be something they not they can live in their fantasy world but with online dating if you make a somewhat connection with someone and you guys decide to meet then the truth will come out eventually. For my fellas im going to be honest with you the way things are now there is a lot of thirsty shit that goes on online also a lot of tricking and simping. I've seen females online who say they in a relationship they are just online for conversation to me that means that they are weighing their options (looking for new dick), look for a confidence or ego boost basically just seeking attention because they are not getting their needs met at home. Even if they don't got a man 9 time out of 10 she already got someone she dealing with or fucking. My thing is you don't take females you meet online to serious they have to many options when it comes to online and its impersonal the majority of women that i have dealt with on a consistent basis have been women i have met when i go out you can build rapport with them and see if you vibe you cant do that sitting behind a computer hollering at women im not saying there is nothing wrong with it but a lot of men do that too much because you lack confidence when you are out and about.
If you do choose to date online im going to give you some tips as far as online dating and how to be successful at it:
1. Be Authentic
This should be common sense ive heard so many stories about cats lying about who they are, what they do as a profession, acting like they single when they are in a relationship or they married, how much money they make (that cat flashing his two-week pay check from his job like he balling on his profile). It's lame a female will find out eventually. Being authentic with a woman not just online when you out socializing you are giving her the option to choose if she wants to fuck with you are not if she dont so be it keep it pushing.
2. Keep The Info You Give Out to Minimum:
Why would you give out all your personal information about your out online. You dont know these women shit I know of situations where cats have been hit for licks by giving out too much info online to a female or someone who made a profile of a woman to set up tricks and simps dont be one of them. Im not saying lie just give as little information about yourself as possible. If a female is too anxious to meet up with you that should be a read flag if you meet up with some one meet at Starbucks a library a public place dont think with your dick you could become part of a lick
3. Be mysterious
When giving as little information about yourself as possible it lets the female mind run wild she will want to know more about you. They key get her to talk about herself you want to know what kind of woman you are dealing with
4. Dont be Quick To Respond to Replies
Wait a couple of days if a female responds back to you or she hit you ups. it makes you look like a busy man you got better things to do than be sitting online all day. Also it doesnt make you come off as being thirsty
5. Dont be Thirsty and come off as desperate
Ive seen so many comments on women's pages from thirsty as men asking can they lick they pussy, damn baby you sexy ass hell, can i drink your bath water, when you going to call me so we can kick it ect. Thats a turn off to women they can get dick anytime. 

SO LAME. HE THINK HE SEXY TO LOL
6. Keep Your Damn Clothes One: A pictures is speaks better than a million words i dont want you guys doing this shit right here this is the worst pic i have seen to date. This cat actually left this on a females page. All i could do was laugh man i didnt know what to say. If you reading this homie we need to sit down and have a man to man, a father to son talk. This is not the picture of him but this one is even worse similar. So dont be doing this shit. 
6. Let her Ask for your number or she give you hers
Honestly i would say wait for the female to give you her number if you guys are have some good dialog shit give her your number just let her know you a busy man you dont be online too much drop the number if she holla cool if she dont cool. If she is interested she will holla at you
7. Be you
When i look at profiles online a lot of times i crack up because you know some of the cats and they trying to come off like they gangsta or they hard like i said some people live in that fantasy word just be yourself let it flow if it peeks a females interest she will fuck with you simple the truth also comes to the light so why be anything but you
8. Be fresh
Have some fly pictures on your page. Take pics of you having fun, smiling, chilling with your love ones. Shit put on a suit. Shit just look like you are a fly ass man who likes to have fun see women want to live out that fantasy through you they want to escape reality at times so look the part to catch her attention
9. Get at the Fly Women
Shit you hollering at females online so why set the bar low holla at all the fly women on there set your standards high. Dont settle for ratchet females because there are a lot of them online and thirsty men get at them on a consistent basis because they think its easy pussy a lot of cats are scared to get at the fly women because they think they dont have a chance you will be surprised if you come at her like you got some sense. Also online some of these womens ego are over inflated because thirsty cats pump their heads up because they trying to fuck em. 
10. Be Unique standout
If you look at the majority of the profiles online of dudes everybody want to be a gangsta so just do something different shit show pics of you taking trips. Throw on a suit i did that once man i got hit up a lot when you are messaging women write something that catches their attention instead of the typical wuz up, you sexy, ect.
11: Dont be flashy 
dont be fronting like you balling when you not. I See some cats who flashing money when they know its they two  week pay check from Walmart (a job is a job im not knocking anyone who work at Walmart). I love to see a cat shining doing his thing it motivates me more but when you are trying to use material things to attract a woman a lot of times you attract the wrong one (shout out to all my hustling women out there). Also ive seen situations where cats have been set up behind doing that. My motto is "if you think with your dick you become part of a lick". Side note: cats who really got paper dont like people to know they got paper. Well i know you thinking well entertainers do it. Keyword entertainers i will let you think on that for a men. 
12. Be skeptical: If a female want to meet up with you all quick. A red flag should go up why this female so in a rush to meet me its 3am the only thing going on at the time is some fucking or illegal activities. Like i said before dont think with your dick.
So play your cards right when doing this online thing. Its fun ive met some cool females online and we cool to this day. Also you cant take a female to serious you meet online especially on sites like mocospace, tagged ect. The reason i say this is because a lot of women live on these websites and have different men hollering at them. So you have to let them choose you just do it in the correct manner and play your cards right. 


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