Tuesday, January 31, 2012

authentic bitches/bad bitches




 Had a conversation with one of my partners we had a interesting conversation about woman (i dont deal with girls) anyway he was saying that females dont want a authentic man (he actually said real i just switched the word i hate that word real overly used). I was like yeah in come cases if a female is looking for a simp, trick, or just a sucka ass nigga she can run some game on if she trying to get something out of him. From my experience it is not the case i havent been the way i am my whole life i have lost a lot of women they come and they go a lot of times i didnt know the reason they left that means that my game wasnt as strong as i thought it was if i did know why they left i had to take the responsibility for them leaving and learn from the situation which makes it easier to move forward. Sometimes a female left because she just found someone better basically she upgraded on a nigga which i cant blame her expecially if i wasnt looking for a relationship if a woman can get her a cat thats doing big things to give her that security she looking for all you can do is give her a applause dont be mad at her if your tools not in order (thats another topic for a later date) shit she come to your house you stay with ur moms or a family member plus you dont got no whip she cant even be comfortable not saying have  your tools in order will keep a woman but it adds the impression that you the nigga she need to be fucking with and she should stick around for a while shit females like nice and comfortable shit. They want to be able to come to yourown spot and just chill not worry about your moms busting in on them (i have had that happen lol) or she has to take a bus or cab to see you (i have had females do that lol) it gets old.
But back to the topic what i have noticed is that when you are authentic with a woman she is know what she is getting upfront she might not like everything that you say but she knows what she is getting in the words of Gorgeous Dre "you have to be a man before anything" you have to let your actions follow your words when you do that a woman feels secure you dont have to sell dreams (that is how i lost a lot of females coming up from selling dreams and not following through on what i was talking) eventually she will see you full of shit and that build resentment and all kind of bs can follow. When you are authentic with a woman and can accept her for who she is with out compromising your beliefs and integrity its a beautiful thing because she is comfortable she is going to give you all of her whether you her man or not you will be surprised a lot of women dont even want a realtionship they just want a authentic man they can chill with fuck and have a good time if it leads to a relationship cool if not cool because she knew what its is from the jump but as a man you have to let you intentions be known from the jump.
So i was telling my partner is that when you dealing with a authentic female you just have to be authentic from the jump with her when she feels she can trust you and is comfortable she will let it be known what she is about you just have to get her to start talking (women love to talk) once she do she will tell you everything the stories i can tell lol of what women have told me. Here is a example i have a homegirl who i fuck with lets call her Nakia we cool as hell we kick it from time to time i dont bug her we fuck every now and then which is cool real ass female use to be a stripper now she squared up nothing wrong with that so anyway she tells me she dealign with this cat who in the military we chilling she showing me the texts i mean this cat is cupcacking and simping hard telling her all the stuff he wants to buy her ect not knowing he dealing with a hustling ass female so guess what she threw him in the trick bag she ended up cutting him off because he presented himself wrong and didnt follow through on what he was saying it made him look lame and basically he was saying all of that so he could just fuck because that is the majority of mens objectives is to get between your legs for the ladies reading this.
Also there are a lot of us cats who start off being authentic we let it be known that we dont want a relationship to women then the female is cool with that then we become all possesive and simpish i have been a victim of this as well thats why i can speak on it you start acting like you her man fell in love with the pussy and head then you end up heart broke when she with the next cat when all you have to do is fall back and play your position always keep your emotions in check see to a authentic female it is a turn off when you act like that no matter what women say they like a challenge you got to let them mind wonder be a mystery to a certain extent so they are checking for you not the other way around.
A authentic female will tell you that she dont care if you fucking with other females if you got some "G" about yourself shit she will bring in another female on "GP" she will ask you questions like "what you think about her dont you think she sexy what if i bring her home. A authentic female not going to bring you no drama so you were authentic with her from the jump there wont be any surprises females calling her phone ext. A authentic female got some hustle in her street in her but still sophisticated. Im sure you get the picture so all im saying if you cant be authentic with a woman shit leave her for the authentic cats out there who know how to handle her.
"ALWAYS KEEP IT 100"

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